A Failed Marriage? The autumn days are getting shorter, but miraculously, here in Santa Cruz, the Indian Summer temperatures are actually warmer than during summertime, and I’ve been so enjoying swimming in the ocean a few more times before the…
I’ve got the good cancer! Many of my close friends and family are currently battling cancer. Leukemia, lung cancer, breast cancer, melanoma. On a daily basis they deal with terrible discomfort and fatigue, invasive procedures, and many, many, many trips…
A Good Day in Prison This past week I was sitting in circle with 20 incarcerated men at the Salinas Valley State Prison, like I’ve done nearly every Wednesday for the past 7 years. It was a profoundly typical and typically…
Published! Magazine Interview Please enjoy my interview from Published! Magazine from 2019. Lucas Roy Lehman speaks and leads seminars on personal power all over the U.S., Sweden, and Canada. He is a certified neuro-transformational coach, a certified sexuality educator, and founding director…
Why Setting Goals (MOSTLY) Doesn’t Work It’s February, the time of year when folks who made New Years’ resolutions begin to lose their New Years’ resolve. After only a month, those not-so-unreasonable goals– to lose 25 pounds, learn to play…
What Should You Do When You Don’t Know What to Do? These are uncertain times, with disruptions and upheavals in all aspects of our personal, financial, social, economic, medical, political, and climate realities. We fear how long this uncertainty will…
Solstice…Jupiter/Saturn Conjunction…So What? As you may know, December 21st marks the shortest day of the year (winter solstice) as well as the closest Jupiter/Saturn conjunction in 800 years–both of which are a very big deal in astrology. Now, while I don’t…
Masculinity Abraham Lincoln famously said, “Better to be silent and thought a fool, then to speak out and remove all doubt.” Perhaps it was in Abe’s spirit then, that before everyone had GPS in their cars, it was a well-worn…
Think Again and Grow Richer The other day I was speaking to a group of real estate professionals, and I asked how many of them had read Napoleon Hill’s classic book, Think and Grow Rich. Nearly everyone raised their hand.…
Is Anyone Else Feeling Like a Prisoner? Back in April, when the pandemic and Shelter-in-Place was first upon us, a friend of mine said he felt like a prisoner. Having spent eight years leading trainings in a maximum security prison,…
